It will definitely suck to go through that kind of experience. You might even think it's the end of the world for you, but soon enough another person will enter your life who will love you more honestly and wholeheartedly than your first, and you'll see that things do get better.
We asked one of our contributors Selena to tell us a little bit about why first loves aren't always the best:
No one finds great love at first, well maybe you're lucky enough to find the one. I personally thought my first love would be my last love. Two years is a big part of my life to have spend it with the person that completely took advantage of all the effort and love I can give. But that doesn't matter anymore, because we all can move on after a heartbreak no matter how long and when. It actually did not take me so long to move on from an agonizing relationship.
I learned that you will be even more comfortable when you feel that someone truly loves and cares for you. You will be so comfortable that you can even tell them when you feel hurt or alone, your deepest, truest feelings, and know that they will make you feel better. That specific person should never ever judge you or your mistakes. They should only see that they love you and that nothing would change their minds.
And that is when I met Hung. He taught me love still exists, after I thought it never could.