"I have this blockmate who I once thought was really nice and he seems like such a loner sometimes so I decided to befriend him. But after some time, he became really clingy and his actions became borderline stalker-ish. He chats with me all the time and retweets or replies to almost all of my tweets. He also follows me and my friend around which we think is super creepy."
Kim: So, obviously this guy likes you. The best way to handle this is to be really upfront with him. If you just keep on dodging him, he might get the wrong idea and lead him on. Guys can't read minds, (no matter how much women think they do)!!! He'll only get the hint if you explicitly tell him what you feel about his behaviour.
Marian: I personally think that talking to him nicely about what's bothering you and talking about how this can be solved will help greatly. You can also try to just ignore his actions, subtly stay away, and hope that one day (soon) he will stop, although there are no guarantees!
"I have been courting this girl for the past year now and I really really liker her, but thing is I don't think she will like me back. about a month or so I stopped talking her cause I thought that I was really just wasting my time and nothing will ever happen anyways. 2 months after I send her a text wondering how is she doing.. she replies and we start talking again till now we are still talking. I heard rumors that she talks about me a lot in her school.. I'm not sure if that is good or bad.. she is an awkward girl and it really isn't the easiest to get her talking cause whenever we talk in person its not a long talk.. any advice on my problem?"
Kim: What you can do is make her really comfortable around you first 'cause she's probably just shy. You can start by hanging out with a group of friends until she's comfortable enough to be alone with you. That's when you talk to her about what you wanna happen and if she has the same feelings for you. If you're really serious about this girl, then you have to do some serious h2h (heart to heart). If she really makes no effort to spend time with you or talk to you, then I'm sorry buddy, but she probably doesn't feel the same way. And that's okay! You're probably still really young, there's the rest of high school and college to flirt with girls and date girls. Don't take this thing too seriously. And you don't wanna spend time with a girl that's forced to be with you or is there for the wrong reasons anyway. She's only gonna break your heart.
Marian: I suggest you talk to her more, really get to know her again. Try to meet up more, hang out, talk in person, and gauge how she reacts around you. If she doesn't talk that much, try to ask her some questions about her day or her life; maybe she's just waiting for you to make the first move? And then maybe during one of your casual conversations, you can subtly ask her where you stand in her life. Also, don't let those rumors bother you so much, it's just gonna cause you unnecessary stress.
Kim: So, obviously this guy likes you. The best way to handle this is to be really upfront with him. If you just keep on dodging him, he might get the wrong idea and lead him on. Guys can't read minds, (no matter how much women think they do)!!! He'll only get the hint if you explicitly tell him what you feel about his behaviour.
Marian: I personally think that talking to him nicely about what's bothering you and talking about how this can be solved will help greatly. You can also try to just ignore his actions, subtly stay away, and hope that one day (soon) he will stop, although there are no guarantees!
"I have been courting this girl for the past year now and I really really liker her, but thing is I don't think she will like me back. about a month or so I stopped talking her cause I thought that I was really just wasting my time and nothing will ever happen anyways. 2 months after I send her a text wondering how is she doing.. she replies and we start talking again till now we are still talking. I heard rumors that she talks about me a lot in her school.. I'm not sure if that is good or bad.. she is an awkward girl and it really isn't the easiest to get her talking cause whenever we talk in person its not a long talk.. any advice on my problem?"
Kim: What you can do is make her really comfortable around you first 'cause she's probably just shy. You can start by hanging out with a group of friends until she's comfortable enough to be alone with you. That's when you talk to her about what you wanna happen and if she has the same feelings for you. If you're really serious about this girl, then you have to do some serious h2h (heart to heart). If she really makes no effort to spend time with you or talk to you, then I'm sorry buddy, but she probably doesn't feel the same way. And that's okay! You're probably still really young, there's the rest of high school and college to flirt with girls and date girls. Don't take this thing too seriously. And you don't wanna spend time with a girl that's forced to be with you or is there for the wrong reasons anyway. She's only gonna break your heart.
Marian: I suggest you talk to her more, really get to know her again. Try to meet up more, hang out, talk in person, and gauge how she reacts around you. If she doesn't talk that much, try to ask her some questions about her day or her life; maybe she's just waiting for you to make the first move? And then maybe during one of your casual conversations, you can subtly ask her where you stand in her life. Also, don't let those rumors bother you so much, it's just gonna cause you unnecessary stress.
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